Anger it often does come next

Ourselves or others we do vex.

The outside hurt is often least

Our inside hurts make us a beast.

 

 

…”For man's anger does not bring about the righteous life that God desires.” (James 1:20 New International Version)

 

Like many addictive feelings anger brings about resentment and hostility, both in our-selves and in others. Harriet Lerner (The Dance of Anger, 1985) writes, “Anger is a signal, and one worth listening to.” This is especially true in those caught up in the circle of addiction. Although anger is also present in some mental illness disorders, anger is a key component in addiction. That anger takes many forms which are directed at a particular person, situation or thing. Depression is often anger turned inward and self-harmful actions are “suicide on the installment plan.” Understanding the sources of that anger is a healthy stop on the way to a better life. James, in verse 1:21 goes on to write. “Therefore, get rid of all moral filth and the evil that is so prevalent and humbly accept the word planted in you, which can save you.” One cannot save oneself alone, but giving oneself over to a higher power can lead to that salvation from addiction. One may want change, but to quote James Gordon, M.D., “It's not that some people have willpower and some don't. It's that some people are ready to change and others are not.” With the help of your family, your friends and your God; Are you ready to make a change?